Getting a second chance
In 2013, I received my undergraduate degree from Augsburg University in Minneapolis. I also was a member of the track and field team for the Auggies. On the day of graduation, our track and field team had a meet at Hamline University that ran simultaneously as the commencement ceremony.
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